In British Columbia, eight couples share their experiences fighting against marriage laws. Their stories reveal the personal struggles and legal challenges they faced in the lead-up to the recognition of same-sex marriage in Canada in 2003. Through interviews and testimonies, the film captures their commitment to love and the societal debates surrounding marriage equality. As they prepare for their weddings, these couples confront the legal system, influencing the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals in Canada and beyond.

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Meet courageous couples fighting for marriage equality.
See the legal battles that changed Canadian law.
Find out about the societal controversy in British Columbia.

Did You Know

Eight couples are featured in the documentary.
Same-sex marriage was recognized in British Columbia in 2003.
The film has a duration of 50 minutes.

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LGBTQ+ rights advocatesMarriage equality supportersCanadian history enthusiasts

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What year did same-sex marriage get recognized in British Columbia?

Same-sex marriage was recognized in British Columbia in 2003.

Who directed the documentary Why Thee Wed?

Cal Garingan directed the documentary Why Thee Wed.

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The documentary profiles eight couples.

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