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202380 minPGdocumentary

Their Own Life

202380 minPGdocumentary

Nearly half of all LGBTQ+ adults in the Netherlands have considered suicide, a rate five times higher than the general adult population.

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Nearly half of all LGBTQ+ adults in the Netherlands have considered suicide, a rate five times higher than the general adult population.

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Tim Dekkersdirector

Tim Dekkerswriter

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Three individuals from the LGBTQ+ community in the Netherlands confront the heavy burden of suicidal thoughts and attempts. Data from the Dutch crisis hotline, 113 Suicide Prevention, reveals that nearly half of LGBTQ+ adults have considered suicide, with transgender individuals facing even higher risks. Over two years, the filmmakers document these individuals as they navigate their darkest moments. Their stories aim to challenge the taboo surrounding mental health within the community and offer hope to others in distress.

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