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202083 minPGdocumentary

7.4/ 10(134 ratings)• TMDB

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A Secret Love

202083 minPGdocumentary

7.4/ 10(134 ratings)• TMDB

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Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel kept their lesbian relationship a secret for nearly 70 years while running a successful interior decorating business in Chicago.

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Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel kept their lesbian relationship a secret for nearly 70 years while running a successful interior decorating business in Chicago.

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Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel met in Canada in 1947 and built a life together in Chicago. Both women kept their romantic relationship secret for nearly seven decades while running a successful interior decorating business. Directed by Chris Bolan, A Secret Love recounts their experiences of love and secrecy against the backdrop of evolving societal attitudes toward LGBTQ+ rights. The film features personal reflections from the couple as they navigate the challenges of coming out later in life. Released on April 29, 2020, it has received critical acclaim for its heartfelt portrayal of their enduring bond.

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Meet Terry Donahue, a former All-American baseball player.
Follow the lives of a couple in a secret relationship.
See how they ran a successful business in Chicago.

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Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel met in Canada in 1947.
The couple kept their relationship secret for almost 70 years.
The film holds a 100% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes based on 45 reviews.
Chris Bolan decided to make the documentary after visiting his great aunts.

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Who directed A Secret Love?

A Secret Love was directed by Chris Bolan.

When was A Secret Love released on Netflix?

A Secret Love was released on Netflix on April 29, 2020.

What is the approval rating of A Secret Love on Rotten Tomatoes?

A Secret Love holds an approval rating of 100% based on 45 reviews on Rotten Tomatoes.

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