Deep Dive: Monogamish (2017)
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Monogamish is a 2017 documentary directed by Tao Ruspoli that examines modern views on monogamy and marriage in the United States. The film features interviews with relationship experts, historians, and everyday couples, questioning traditional beliefs about love and commitment. Ruspoli, who has a personal connection to the subject through his family's unconventional relationship history, incorporates these narratives alongside expert commentary to provide a multifaceted perspective on contemporary relationship structures.
The documentary takes its title from the term 'monogamish,' coined by sex columnist Dan Savage, which describes relationships that are mostly monogamous but allow for some flexibility. With contributions from notable figures such as Esther Perel and Christopher Ryan, Monogamish investigates various relationship models, including polyamory and open relationships, within the context of current societal norms and evolving cultural attitudes towards love and family.
Why Watch
- •Meet Dan Savage and his views on 'monogamish' relationships.
- •Find out how Ruspoli's family history shapes the narrative.
- •See diverse perspectives on marriage and commitment.
Did You Know
•The film features interviews with Dan Savage, Esther Perel, and Christopher Ryan.
•Tao Ruspoli is the son of Italian aristocrat Prince Alessandro Ruspoli.
•The documentary has a runtime of 75 minutes.
•Mark Wrathall, a co-writer, is a professor of philosophy at Oxford University.
Perfect For
Relationship dynamicsModern marriageAlternative lifestyles