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Deep Dive: Love and Stuff (2014)

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Love and Stuff
The film follows the aftermath of the death of the narrator's 84-year-old mother, who passed away from stage 4 colon cancer in September 2013. It captures the emotional process of sorting through her belongings, revealing family history and personal memories tied to various items. The narrator reflects on missed opportunities to connect with her mother during her illness, as they were unable to go through the belongings together as planned. As the family sorts through the apartment, they categorize items into piles for donation, recycling, or keeping. The film shows the significance of certain possessions, such as a dining room table that held many family conversations and events. The narrator's struggle with grief and the physical act of sorting through her mother's belongings serves as a moving exploration of loss and memory.

Why Watch

  • See the emotional impact of sorting through a loved one's belongings.
  • Find out what happens to a family dining table with a rich history.
  • Meet the narrator's brothers and their different approaches to grief.

Did You Know

The narrator's mother lived with stage 4 colon cancer for 2.5 years.
The family had just weeks to sort through the mother's three-bedroom apartment after her death.
The mother's handmade bridge was valued at $7,000.
The narrator's brother David lives 3,000 miles away in Oregon.

Perfect For

Family dynamicsGrief and lossPersonal memories